You and your spouse haven't seen eye-to-eye regarding your relationship in a long time. That's part of why you're filing for divorce. However, you also are not on the same page regarding the split. Your spouse thinks you should not get divorced and says they'll never agree to it.
If there's one thing that you should know about abuse, it's that even if it's not physical, it can leave a lasting impression on both you and your kids' lives. It can leave you a shell of the person you once were, taking away your zest for life. You don't have to let abuse ruin your life, though. A restraining order can help you put an end to it.