The process of going through a divorce means that you're going to have to make a lot of decisions about various aspects of your life. This includes figuring out who is going to get what in the property division agreement and what's going to happen with the children. For many people, all of this happens during a series of negotiations. While this method of resolving things does provide you with more control over what happens, it isn't always easy to do because you're working so closely with your ex.
It's very unlikely that a person will find a divorce to be a complete surprise because there are usually signs that the marriage is on its last legs. Knowing these signs might help you to address them before the erode the marriage to the point of it becoming irreparable. If there's not any chance of improving things, knowing these signs can warn you that you should prepare for divorce.