One of the most troubling things for children who have parents going through a divorce is figuring out how to handle the transitions that are coming. They might worry about how they're going to be able to move from one house to the other without always feeling like they're starting over again.
As their parents, you and your ex will have to work together to come up with a plan to help make things as easy as you can for them. There are several ways you can do this. Trying to come up with the terms of the parenting plan quickly when you decide to divorce is beneficial since it lessens the time of uncertainty and gives them a solid plan to count on.